10 Stories About the Necessity of Self Care

10 stories about the necessity of self-care. Read more from Holl & Lane at hollandlanemag.com

There’s been a lot of controversy lately about self-care - what it’s “supposed” to look like or what it means. The truth is - it’s different for everyone. What feels life-giving and refreshing to one person might seem unimportant to someone else, but that’s OK. It’s called SELF-care, so taking care of yourself and your needs is of utmost importance. Whether that means a brief five minutes of silence hiding in the bathroom, or taking a nap, or a weekend trip to the spa - self-care is what you make it and you deserve it. Your soul needs a little TLC every now and then. Remember that.

Here are 10 stories from women like you who have embraced self-care in their lives - each in different ways and taking a different journey to get there.

What Self-Care Means to Me - from Holl & Lane Magazine. Read more at hollandlanemag.com/blog

WHAT SELF CARE MEANS TO ME

As I write this, it's the eve before I leave on a two-week trip. I am sitting in a cafe across the street from my apartment, sipping on the most delightful, caramel-flavored latte. I have a book sitting next to me by one of my favorite female writers, a journal with pages left to fill, and some brand new pens. To a lot of people, my night looks like self care. I could even easily trick myself into thinking that I am diving head first into treating myself well here. These are the things we've decided self care is all about, aren't they? Warm coffee, melted chocolate, twinkly lights -- I've got them all.

 
How I Became a Runner While Focusing on Self-Care - from Holl & Lane Magazine. Read more at hollandlanemag.com/blog

HOW I BECAME A RUNNER WHILE FOCUSING ON SELF-CARE

I just started. I didn’t tell anyone. I didn’t make a big show of it. I just began.

I started small. I focused on what I was eating. I’ve never had a problem with adjusting my diet, so I figured the easiest step was to focus there first. I re-downloaded the My Fitness Pal app and started paying attention to my portion sizes. I started watching how many calories were in the foods I had been eating. I didn’t starve myself, I still enjoyed food, I just did it in a healthier way. This was my sole focus for a month. And I began to see very slight changes in my body and how I was feeling.

 
You Are Your Most Important Relationship - from Holl & Lane Magazine. Read more at hollandlanemag.com/blog

YOU ARE YOUR MOST IMPORTANT RELATIONSHIP

Take a moment to think about who you love and who you cherish and care for. Whilst I’m sure many of your nearest and dearest spring to mind, did you think to include yourself in that list? How easily could you say that you love yourself?

Self-love is not just bubble baths and face masks, it goes far beyond that.

 
How to Use Creativity to Fuel Your Transformation. Read more from Holl & Lane Magazine at hollandlanemag.com/blog

HOW TO USE CREATIVITY TO FUEL YOUR TRANSFORMATION

While staring at the blank canvas, I was nervous. What if my painting sucked? Everyone in the bar will laugh at me. But once I took that first step of dipping the brush into the acrylic paint (and not my wine—a mistake I’d make on another occasion), a little fire came alive inside of me and I was hooked.

 
Busy and Renewed: Solo Self-Care. Read more from Holl & Lane Magazine at hollandlanemag.com/blog

BUSY AND RENEWED: SOLO SELF-CARE

I didn’t notice my need for restoration for some time. I don’t mean just sleep, but emotional, spiritual, mental restoration. The busy lifestyle kind of seems to creep up on us, doesn’t it? Before we know it we find ourselves running on empty, yet somehow still moving our arms and legs. In a way, it’s easier to be busy—or so we think. If we’re busy, we don’t need to process, we just follow the age-old Nike slogan and “just do it.” But a life on auto-pilot—where time runs too quickly out of our tightly clenched fists—is no life at all. It also leads to severe burnout.

 
3 Acts of Self-Love You Can Practice This Week. Read more at Holl & Lane Magazine at hollandlanemag.com/blog

3 ACTS OF SELF-LOVE YOU CAN PRACTICE THIS WEEK

"Self-care is survival. Self-love is sacred."

When I came across these words the other day, I stopped in my tracks. I learned about self-care when I entered college, but the idea of something even more loving than self-care was completely new.

We're all friends here so I'll be honest with you– I struggle to even care for myself. And I know I'm not alone in this.

 
3 Simple Self-Love Practices to Embrace Today. Read more from Holl & Lane Magazine at hollandlanemag.com/blog

3 SIMPLE SELF-LOVE PRACTICES TO EMBRACE TODAY

I have started a journey and no one knows. My journey does not involve planes, trains, automobiles, distant lands, or magnificent cultures. My journey is one that involves buying myself flowers on February 15, taking a day to read an important book, wandering for photographs, and pouring determination (and sore fingers) into knitting my own blanket. My journey is one of love and life and a rediscovering of myself.

 
4 Tips to Stop Negative Self-Talk. Read more from Holl & Lane Magazine at hollandlanemag.com/blog

4 TIPS TO STOP NEGATIVE SELF-TALK

Our minds can play tricks on us, like all the time. It can tell us that we are not good enough, that we don't have what it takes, or that we just plain suck, even though we know that we are none of those things. Our mindset and energy around it can help us deal with our gremlins (those horrible negative self-talk thoughts we have) to get us back to seeing just how amazing we actually are!

 
The Power of Mindfulness. Read more from Issue 10 of Holl & Lane Magazine at hollandlanemag.com/shop

THE POWER OF MINDFULNESS

According to the dictionary mindfulness means a mental state achieved by focusing one's awareness on the present moment, while calmly acknowledging and accepting one's feelings, thoughts, and bodily sensations, used as a therapeutic technique. For me mindfulness means achieving a positive outlook on life, casting out fear and replacing it with strength and confidence. The great thing about mindfulness is it can become what you want it to become. You don’t have to fit it into a cookie cutter definition of what someone else wants it to be. It can become what you want it to be.

 
Redemption Through Yoga. Read more from Issue 19 of Holl & Lane Magazine at hollandlanemag.com/shop

REDEMPTION THROUGH YOGA - From Issue 19 of Holl & Lane Magazine

Through chaos I found balance. Every morning I would practice, I’d go to work, and then I’d go to train in the evenings. Nurturing myself outside of the industry felt almost like a beautiful hallucination. I was surrounded by kind, gentle people who didn’t know or understand what I did. They asked me questions about my personal life, my goals, my relationships. The fiery delirium I felt towards my career was soothed. My hands slowly found the steering wheel once more.


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There’s been a lot of controversy lately about self-care - what it’s “supposed” to look like or what it means. Read more at hollandlanemag.com #selfcare
What feels life-giving and refreshing to one person might seem unimportant to someone else, but that’s OK. Self-care is different for everyone. Read more at hollandlanemag.com #selfcare
It’s called SELF-care, so taking care of yourself and your needs is of utmost importance. Read more at hollandlanemag.com